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Little by Little

Parenting & Consulting

At Little by Little, we partner with parents and educators to understand the unique child in front of them. Beginning with listening and honoring their insights and experiences, we offer perspectives and education rooted in attachment-based, research-informed principles, systems thinking, and the belief that connection and boundaries go hand in hand. Together, we make sense of what’s happening and find grounded, practical steps forward, celebrating little wins to build clarity, confidence, and supportive relationships for every family and classroom.


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Small Steps, Big Love.

Wondering what’s behind behavior? Little by Little unpacks the ‘why’ with empathy, offering tools for parents and educators to connect and grow. Explore now!

“I can’t even begin to describe how much Vanessa has impacted my parenting. She has helped me with both my son and daughter, and has given me different tools for each of them, as she recognizes they are different children with different temperaments. I am forever indebted to the skills she has equipped me with.”

— Holly S.

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