Quick, Calm Verbiage Toolkit

$10.00

Big feelings don’t need big speeches. Kids hear us best when we’re short, calm, and consistent.

Price: $10 USD (Instant digital download – no shipping!)

Description: Transform tough moments with Vanessa’s Verbiage Toolkit! This cute, printable chart (18×24” PDF) offers 30+ short, calm phrases for parents and educators— perfect for meltdowns, boundaries, and play. Rooted in play-based wisdom, it includes:

  • Naming What You See: “I saw you fall” (pause, connect).

  • Holding Limits: “I won’t let you hit” (calm, clear).

  • Bedtime: “It’s time for sleep — you’re safe.”

  • Safety: “Stop your body” (with cues).

  • Praising Action: “You kept trying.”

  • Teacher Tips: “I wonder what you could do?” (pause for solutions).

  • Self-Grounding: “My job is to be steady, not to fix everything.”

Ideal for co-ops, classrooms, or home, this toolkit helps you validate, guide, and co-regulate. Download instantly, print for your wall, and start today!

Why You’ll Love It:

  • Quick, actionable support for any play moment.

  • Empowers kids’ growth with empathy, not judgment.

  • From Vanessa’s 10+ years as a preschool director and MFT trainee.

Bonus: Tips to make it your own! Ready for more? Book a 60-min Educator Call ($100) at https://calendly.com/vanessa-littlebylittleco/1-1-educator-support-session.

Instant access after purchase. No refunds. Supports Little by Little Play Consulting’s play heritage mission.

Big feelings don’t need big speeches. Kids hear us best when we’re short, calm, and consistent.

Price: $10 USD (Instant digital download – no shipping!)

Description: Transform tough moments with Vanessa’s Verbiage Toolkit! This cute, printable chart (18×24” PDF) offers 30+ short, calm phrases for parents and educators— perfect for meltdowns, boundaries, and play. Rooted in play-based wisdom, it includes:

  • Naming What You See: “I saw you fall” (pause, connect).

  • Holding Limits: “I won’t let you hit” (calm, clear).

  • Bedtime: “It’s time for sleep — you’re safe.”

  • Safety: “Stop your body” (with cues).

  • Praising Action: “You kept trying.”

  • Teacher Tips: “I wonder what you could do?” (pause for solutions).

  • Self-Grounding: “My job is to be steady, not to fix everything.”

Ideal for co-ops, classrooms, or home, this toolkit helps you validate, guide, and co-regulate. Download instantly, print for your wall, and start today!

Why You’ll Love It:

  • Quick, actionable support for any play moment.

  • Empowers kids’ growth with empathy, not judgment.

  • From Vanessa’s 10+ years as a preschool director and MFT trainee.

Bonus: Tips to make it your own! Ready for more? Book a 60-min Educator Call ($100) at https://calendly.com/vanessa-littlebylittleco/1-1-educator-support-session.

Instant access after purchase. No refunds. Supports Little by Little Play Consulting’s play heritage mission.